Dua for a happy married life

Posted: August 3, 2011 in Dua for Marriage &Married Couples
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This dua is said to be effective in the case where there is no love or little love between husband and wife. One should recite this to increase affection so that one can lead a happy married life.  Abu Darda Radhiallahu anhu is reported to have said that whosoever wishes that Allah make his worldly life joyful and successful must recite the following verse of the Qur’an 100 times a day: Verse 129 of Surah Al-Taubah


فَإِنْ تَوَلَّوْا فَقُلْ حَسْبِيَ اللَّـهُ لَا إِلَـٰهَ إِلَّا هُوَ عَلَيْهِ تَوَكَّلْتُ ۖ وَهُوَ رَبُّ الْعَرْشِ الْعَظِيمِ ﴿١٢٩


 But if they turn away, [O Muhammad], say, “Sufficient for me is Allah; there is no deity except Him. On Him I have relied, and He is the Lord of the Great Throne.”

  1. mrs.E says:

    Salam Brother,can you please help me with my suspicions and doubts regarding my husband,I hv always been suspecting him as id he is cheating on me,I dont know why i dont trust him. pls reply.Thanks brother so much..MAy ALLAH bless you always.

    • shadaanalam says:

      It important that you must talk to your husband with regard to your doubts clearly and get the matter settled before it ruins your married life. Yes you must recite this dua for a happy married life. You can also read Ya Wadudo 101 times daily after any farz namaaz and pray to Allah that He increases love between you and your husband. Inshallah everything will be fine

    • julekha siddiqui says:

      kindly pronounce the above dua in english.

  2. shams shaikh says:

    salam brother ,what if a husband doesnot like his wife because she is not beautiful.and always taunts,humiliate his wife .then what she need to do ,..will she get a reward from Allah for her humiliation,pls reply.thanks ,may Allah bless you always

    • shadaanalam says:

      walekum salam brother, most of the people in this world forget that we have not created our own selves. we are Allah’s creation and if we mock or taunt someone just on the basis of looks then we are disrespecting HIM. the wife must just pray to Allah that the husband’s attitude gets changed towards her by praying the above dua. She can always read this dua too to get glow and a beautiful face https://islamicduasandsupplications.wordpress.com/2011/06/20/dua-to-get-glow-and-grace-on-your-face/. just recite whenever you are putting any cream on your face and inshalllah the face will become beautiful in the eyes of husband.

  3. Humaira Yusuf says:

    I married the man I love 3 years back. I did and sacrificed a lot for him. But he left me for an another married woman without fulfilling his responsibilities. Now I’m hurt and heart broken. He forced me to give him a divorce. I did what he said as I couldn’t make him understand. But I never signed the paper. One of my brothers signed it for me. Nobody knows that accept my husband.

    Now my parents want me to get married. But that is impossible for me. I’ve never thought of any other guy accept my husband. And I don’t want to think.

    He hurt me a lot. But still I want him to understand his mistakes and get back in my life. Because he is my husband. Every day, every moment I pray to Allah to show me the right path.

    What Allah says for this situation? What shall I do?

    May Allah bless you

    • shadaanalam says:

      Read Ya Haadiyo daily 101 times and ask Allah to show you the right path and guide your way. With regard to the fact that you didnt signed the divorce papers, it is better to consult an Aalim who has complete information on such issues of muslim marriage and divorce.

  4. shabana says:

    plz could that Dua be translated in english

  5. Shumaila says:

    Salam Brother, I got love marriage 2 years back, I have suffer a lot to get marry some time my husband support me some time not, but now after marriage he become very change very stubborn every time he hurt me taunt me for nothing and never admit his mistake I’m trying a lot to realize him his mistakes but he don’t want to understand, our fights getting more, lots of misunderstanding between us, every time we fight and say to each other to get separate. please advise me how can I make my marriage happy and peaceful. thank you

    • shadaanalam says:

      you need to recite the above mentioned dua and pray to Allah to make your marriage happy and peaceful. You can also read Ya Wadudo 101 times daily after any farz namaaz and pray to Allah that He increases love between you and your husband. Inshallah everything will be fine

  6. madiha says:

    can i read this dua befoe marriage?

  7. Sumi Fazal says:

    can we read this dua anytime or is there a certain time? n do we need to do wudooo…..

  8. beena says:

    salam,can u plz translate the above dua in english arabic

    فَإِنْ تَوَلَّوْا فَقُلْ حَسْبِيَ اللَّـهُ لَا إِلَـٰهَ إِلَّا هُوَ عَلَيْهِ تَوَكَّلْتُ ۖ وَهُوَ رَبُّ الْعَرْشِ الْعَظِيمِ ﴿١٢٩

  9. Zahra says:

    Salam im really depressed for the past Few. Years. I have not Bern feeling well Cause i was engaged for 4 years. Just some months ago i got divorce from This and after à month à relative proposed and i said yes but now i kinda need some time for myself. I Dont know what to Do. I feel so sad and i have prayed à LOT to Allah to help me trough This. Plz pray for me. I Worry to much

    • shadaanalam says:

      First of all you must thank Allah that inspite of being engaged for fours and after he left you, Allah still has sent you a good proposal which is really a mercy of Allah on you. Sister not all are so lucky to get a marriage proposal even after a breakup from someone, you need to understand that first.
      second, i understand that being engaged with someone fr four years means a lot- getting attracted towards him as well as being with him mentally and pscyhollogically too. so it is but natural for you to have tension and worries in your mind. but what has gone is gone, he wont come back to you. this you should remember. so what is the alternative now? your cousin proposed and you have said yes. this has been your best decision. now, just relax say thanks to Allah and most important try to know him more, try to forget everything of the past. even if this cousin knows about that guy try not to talk about him anymore. he was not of your worth. you have a beautiful life ahead sister, and you have to make it the best. forgetting a bitter past is not easy and it will come back again and again in your mind but you have to make your mind realise that you in no way want to remember or think about your ex. your current fiancee is your everything now- try to know what he loves to talk, eat, his habits etc. make him feel happier dont be depressed in front of him, and leave the rest to Allah. IF Allah gave you a bitter past then it is only Allah who will give you a best future. Be happy, Be Thankful, wishing you the best in your life.

  10. sara fatima says:

    I want to ask you aquestion brother,my friend‘s husband often points her that what she eats ,uses are all his.She feels very bad .Could you please suggest some solution.

    • shadaanalam says:

      this is quite strange to hear. When we get married, it becomes the duty and responsibility of the husband to see that his wife lives happily with him, and he has to provide her with all the basic needs. it is mutual as the wife in turn has to look after his house, children etc. it is a bonding relation, the way he says is of course wrong and i think it needs the intervention of elder members of the family to let the husband understand that he is doing what he has to do, it is nothing big or extra he is doing

  11. mulumba oumar naseef says:

    May Allah reward you abundantly.ameen.inshaallah

  12. SEEMA FATIMA says:

    Sir Pl mere help kare koi aise dua bataea jise mere bhan ke zindage me kushi wapas ayea.
    Sir mere bhan ne apne pasand se shaadi ki lekin unki husband unko bhot pareshan kerre, unke liyea bilkul bhe care nahi karre. pl koi aise dua bataea jisse ki unki husband mere bhan ko chahakar rakhe pl.

    • shadaanalam says:

      Sister, please aap apni sister ko boliye ke wo above mentioned dua roz padhain aur Allah se dua karain ki unkey husband unhain pyaar se rakhain. Two rakat salaat hajat padh kar roz Allah se dua maangey ke zindagi main khushiyaan phir se wapas ajayain. “Ya Wadood’ 101 times padh kar salt and sugar par dum kardain. Inshallah Allah ki rehmat hogi

  13. julekha siddiqui says:

    kindly pronounce the above dua in english

  14. Ummeed says:

    A/w i got married 5years back everythin was fine .now he is intrested in someother girl .he don’t like me and don’t want to stay with me have 2kids we are livingin a seprete room m praying to allah make my life easier now m verey much tire sometimes i want to go away from him…please help me

    • shadaanalam says:

      Walekum salam sister, it is really unfortunate to know about the condition you are in. May Allah ease our tensions and problems Ameen. Please recite the above mentioned dua and pray to Allah. Also read ‘Ya Lateefo’ 101 times after every namaaz and ‘Ya Wadoodo’ 101 times and blow on sugar and salt. Inshallah love will be restored by the Will and Wish of Allah. If he is angry with you anytime then recite ‘Aaoozo billahi minshashyaitwa nir-rajeem’ atleast 11 times and blow on him, his anger will subside..

  15. mrs.muneeb says:

    Dear brother….I m in a stress these days a lot….I wanted to tell…..I have a beautiful life with a kind husband and 2 smaller kids….but I am a complete housewife….2 months back….I don’t know how but a man came into my life…..and I always appreciate his struggling life and started chatting on Facebook than I started messaging on mobile on daily basis…..even for the whole night….than it comes a time….I felt attached with him a lot….as he always gave me attention and praised me a lot….one day I told him that I m involved…..suddenly he refused and said I don’t have such emotional feelings for me…..he said he still has respect and care for me but without feelings…..from the day I am so much hurted and broken…..and almost we have finished chat…..but still I m always thinking of him 24 hours…..and feel stress…..now he is stocked to my mind ….it is really irritating….please help me I want to come out of this situation

    • shadaanalam says:

      Before i say something- i just want to ask you a few things- don’t you love your husband? Does you husband doesn’t love you? Do you spend time with each other or not? I know you are a housewife but still do you stay confined totally to your house or sometimes go out with your husband even if it means shopping? If both of you love each other and have alhmadolillah two kids then how can a stranger come in your life and

      Anyways, coming to your problem, i am a bit shocked, firstly because you said you talked to him for whole day or night, how did you manage to take out time for that? Indeed you were ignoring your household duties that of being a mother and a wife. We people are like that- if someone praises us a bit we feel so happy and have all the good things to think about that person, this is natural and happens with all of us. But sister, how can you be so much infatuated that you are missing him now? It is no harm having a good friendship with online friends but that should in no way be at the cost of your marriage. What if your husband finds about it? how would he feel. In the sameway think if your husband just due to this act of yours starts having an affair what will you do then? Sister, wake up and feel the reality. You have a beautiful life which in fact is not avaialble to thousands of girls. So all i would say is just engage with your household works, start loving your husband and your kids, you will feel much happier and proud of them. A family is only complete when you- the central person of the house starts to take care of it. Just forget who he was, what he said about you etc etc. If you start to think about him, just in his place take your husband and start thinking the time when he used to praise her. If you have online account, do something constructive, start online work which is done by so many housewives. Use online time for something creative rather than spoiling your happy married life. I am sorry if my answer hurts in you in anyway but this is in your interests. Wake up before it is late.

      • Zahra says:

        Salam admin! I wrote to you january 23:rd. Plz make dua for me and suggest me dua to recite. I read quran very much this Holy month and i have tried to give money to the poor. Not very Much cause i dont have ANy work but i try My best to give charity. I dont know what Else to do. I even went and visit à psykologist to see if they Can help me. In november i accepted s proppsal and we were going to do neekah in the end of january but i just changed My mind for no reason. The 2 first months, it felt Right but then i just started to get unsure and i could not control My feelings anymore. I started to hate to talk to him and avoid to chat with him and eventuelly i told My family and him that i dont want to do neekah cause Im sick. But they have still been waiting for me and they have hope, My motherr believe things Will be fine and that i Will agree but i dont know what to do. I CRy à LOT and ask Allah to help me. Everything Else in my LIFE is perfect. I have My family, friends, home, live in europe, Wear hijab, pray, read quran, i treat My brothers Wives well. Make food, clean house and Im à helpful person. I just he this problem. Cant descide to Marry. I want to Marry but it does not feel Right. In the beginning everything felt good biet Then i changed My mind. Im glad Allah did not let us to do neekah. He live in asia and i in europe. Plz make dua for me. Next week i leaving for the country where he live. I have My relatives There. I hope i dont meet him. Im so afraid. I have asked nd begged Allah to send me another proposal . I hope Allah does not see me as an unthankful person. I really want happiness in My LIFE. Im 25 years and i dont think People Will be interested of me because of my age. Im just getting older. Plz pray to Allah to solve this problem first. I hope they can accept that i dont want him with arguing, hope Allah can solve it in à fine and peace way. Give me advice. I hope doctor can find the problem with me and help me. Thanks

      • shadaanalam says:

        Walekum salam sister, and at first let me apologise for not replying you in jan. due to other works. I read your question, but i am unable to understand one thing- why you dont want to marry that person? Is he not suitable to you, don’t your minds match..is he rude or arrogant kind? Well, there may be many reasons for your decision but you should also listen to your family- if they think he is good for you then perhaps he must be. However your personal choice is more important and it is very necessary that you must like the person whom you want to marry. Just forget everything and think again- do you want him or you don’t? Mashallah you are already a religious person offering namaaz and charity too inshallah Allah will do the best for you.

        You should read two rakat salat hajaat daily and read ‘Ya Haadio’ 101 times daily. This will help you get the direction from Allah, He will guide you on the right path. Just make dua to Allah after reading it ‘Ya Allah do what is in my best interest, Show me the right path’ In fact read Ya Haadio as much as possible. You should also read ‘Ya Mutakkabiro’ which will ease all difficulties in life. Keep reading Yaseen Shareef daily and pray to Allah as much as you can. Before you go to the country where he is living, do read ‘salat hajaat’ and pray that if he is right for you then only you meet him. Inshallah Allah will help you out. Just think again about your decision.

        Also read https://islamicduasandsupplications.wordpress.com/2011/09/28/dua-to-get-rid-of-all-kinds-of-calamities-tensiongriefworries/

  16. Jasmine Fathima says:

    Assalamulaikum Brother!! I was in affair with a guy since a year, our parents agreed to for marriage, we use to work in same office, 3 months ago he moved to someother company, still we were good, loved and care each other alot, he use to love me and care me alot, I use to be very surprised by his love towards me, he did many promises and he was very genuine, later this month he started avoiding me alot, he was lying to me, he got attracted to his new environment, he was getting fedup with me alot, he use to be very frustrated and angry on me, I never saw this attitude in one year, finally he told me that he cant continue with me, i cried alot and begged him, alot, stating not to leave, still he did not listen to me, I dont know what happend to him all of sudden, please help me to regain his love back, I love him alot and I want to marry him, I cant stay without him, I am praying to Allah swt alot to get back his love in my life, brother please pray for me and help to get him back into my life, I will be very greatfull to you… your needy sister…

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